Weddings scare me. Not in the typical “I’m a guy so I’m stereotypically afraid of commitment” sort of way. Weddings scare me because there are no retakes. You can’t ask the wedding couple to throw another wedding because you didn’t have the correct exposure settings the first time around. For this reason, I have always been hesitant to accept wedding photography jobs. However, to grow as a photographer, I feel you always need to push yourself and take yourself out of your comfort zone.
Weddings are a HUGE deal. Maybe not for you or me, but for the couple (and accompanying family), this is their one day. A lot of time, planning and emotion goes into weddings. That creates a lot of pressure. This should never be lost an any aspiring photographer. Taking on wedding photography jobs is a giant step and really shouldn’t be taken lightly.
Recently though, my good friends Hayden and Anna asked me to photograph their wedding. I am pretty vocal about my stance on wedding photography so they were well aware of my hesitations before they asked me. They told me that I would have complete control (no self-appointed art-director family members) and that they really just wanted me, someone they are comfortable with, to photograph their wedding. When they put it like that, there really was no way I could say no, so I sucked it up and agreed.
Some of the results:
































